Sunday, December 5, 2010

Except - FOR LOVE, FOR LUST, FOR FRIENDSHIP

Barbette knew that Jerry was 18 years older than she.  She had met Jerry through her father when she was eighteen and Jerry and her dad played golf together.  In fact, her father was once part owner of his club but her father had allowed him to purchase the interest that he owned in the club, a year earlier.
  Jerry had been Barbette’s sex-partner and she would never forget how good he was.  Being older and more experienced Jerry had taken every opportunity to teach her everything he knew about sex. Also, just being around him had put her in a great position to learn a lot about running a business; he owned three clubs in Atlanta.  Barbette remembered how he used to love to have her in his office, - on his desk.  She always thought that might have been a power thing with him, but had to admit that she loved it herself.
Barbette assumed Jerry knew Dee pretty well from the brief conversation they had.  Dee had said more to him than he had to Barbette all night. 
Jerry turned towards Carl and asked, “What’s your lady’s, name Carl”
“Oh yeah,” Carl said almost distractedly as he pulled Barbette by the hand forcing her to face Jerry.  Jerry looked shocked.  He stared at Barbette, wearing a surprised look on his face.  Carl noticed the way Jerry was looking at Barbette, but continued with the introduction. “Barbette this is Jerry, Jerry this is Barbette.” Jerry put his hand out and Barbette took it in hers. 
“It’s been a long, long time,” Jerry said.
Barbette just smiled.  They never took their eyes off each other. 
Carl quietly asked, “Do you two know each other?”
Jerry spoke up, “Very well… We met a long, long time ago.”  Jerry still had Barbette’s hand in his and their eyes were still on each other. 
Carl said, “Hey man - you want to meet tomorrow to talk about the group?”  Jerry let go of Barbette’s hand and brought his attention to Carl and Dean. 
“Oh… yes,” he said. “Can you come by the club around 1:30 in the afternoon?”

Friday, November 26, 2010

FOR THE LUST IN YOU, WILL YOU DO ANYTHING?

You'll go when he wants you. All he has to do is call.
You'll walk hundred miles, wearing a smile.
Change your arrangement forget about you plans
Rearrange your scheduled for an hour of romance.

First, you think it's love. Then you realize it is just a need.
You think you’re going crazy and find out you just want to be please.
So go ahead out there, enjoy the love affair.
For the lust in you, you will do anything.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Marriage is not easly, but it gets better with time.

Many people have said that marriage is not easy, but it gets better with time. 
That is a true statement. I believe that when God said “and the two shall become one”, which he didn't mean it would happen over night. Under God's direction, there is a process attached to the joining as one. Not every couple can handle the process; it depends on if they married for the right reason and if love is the reason at the top of the list. 

One of the problems is today's young adults don't have the time or patients to stay in their relationships long enough to complete the process and experience the transition of becoming one.  Also with divorces becoming a norm in our every day life and society, couples tend to live together and not commit to what God has put in place for us as a union of woman and man.

When my husband and I met. We were so in love that we got married within 8 months of meeting. The beginning of our marriage was able to withstand all types of obstacles that included a surprise birth of a wonderful son, Matthew.  However, shortly after that, everything started going down hill.  We couldn't seem to get on the same page.  It took several years, but somehow with the help of God, and a lot of prays, we were able to slowly pull it back together. It wasn't easy, but it was a learning process, that opened the door of understanding my husband, as well as myself...  After 22 years of marriage, we have finished the transition of becoming one and we are complete.  We hear each other without speaking, we sense each other presents without seeing, and we walk with God at the same pace. We are ONE.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

SPOUSE VS LOVER

ARE YOU SPENDING THE HOILDAY WITH
 YOUR SPOUSE OR YOUR LOVER???

When I was single, I found that when the holidays came around my boy friend was no where to be found. It took a minute for me to figure it out, but I believe that when your boyfriend disappears during the holidays he has someone else  in his life. Someone special and someone he would rather share the holidays with other than you. It could be another girl friend, boy friend or a wife or husband.